Alternative titles for this post included the following: “How to Survive Teenagers in the House,” “Keeping Your Sanity with Teens,” “If you thought my nagging is annoying, kid, wait until you experience yo mama’s supernagging!” and “Help Me, I Have a Teenaged Son.”
Honestly, I can’t really use any of the above alternates because The Boy is a growing into a fabulous young man. If I could harness a fraction of his drive and (hyper-)focus there is no telling WHAT I could accomplish.
So, the boring, non-antagonistic title will have to stay for now.
My strategy for success (my own, not the The Boy’s- he shall have his own) is to keep discovering new… everything: restaurants, recipes, cocktails, hikes, sports, books, friends, music, etc. Hopefully I will keep my sanity by continuing to grow myself as I watch my two teens grow.


The Short List for 2017
- Piano lessons for me (or online tutorial… anyone have any suggestions?)
- Complete OpenCulture.com’s Survey of Shakespeare’s Plays
- Complete a 15 mile mountain bike race this June while The Husband makes short work of the longer race
- Tear through some fab recipes in my Scratch Labs cookbook. Because I don’t want to be eating icky bars or energy gels on the above mentioned ride.
- Finally watch Downton Abbey (because I have to do something about this Sherlock hangover. Moffat and Gatiss- can we have more than three episodes per series? Pretty Please?)
- And probably the most important on this list, give The Boy enough rope to learn, grow and thrive- and trust that he wont hang himself. And try to shut my mouth shut. Because he is one heck of an awesome guy.

Every “stage” is like letting go of the handlebars and giving a little push, right? Oh, and the same is true of letting *them* go, too! 😎
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When do we get over the stage of being overwhelmingly proud of their words/deeds, followed two minutes later by amazed that they haven’t killed themselves yet? And how are you two surviving this near-empty nester stage? Yoinks. My strategy relies heavily on visiting the fine craft breweries in these Yoo-nited States.
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Be aware…:or be alert. The world needs more lerts.
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Oh. My. GOSH! That is a favorite family saying around here, HA!
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